Nov
9
Strong Peace
Filed Under Devotional
“If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic.” Luke 6:29
This verse seems like a clear declaration of peace in the face of an antagonist. But, how does this apply to someone you work with or someone you are related to? Are we to be doormats? Should we meekly allow people to insult or abuse us repeatedly? Well, let’s see what Jesus did:
“When Jesus said this, one of the officials nearby struck him in the face. ‘Is this the way you answer the high priest?’ he demanded.
‘If I said something wrong,’ Jesus replied, ‘testify as to what is wrong. But if I spoke the truth, why did you strike me?’ ” John 18:22-23
Jesus did not meekly roll over and allow Himself to be treated badly. He calmly and clearly challenged the authorities as to why they treated Him that way. The key with turning the other cheek is to read the rest of what Jesus said before the verse I quoted earlier:
“But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.” Luke 6:27-28
This is not about making yourself a punching bag, but about not returning insult for insult or injury for injury. It’s God’s responsibility to balance the books. Your job is to love everyone and do the best you can to live in peace.
“Do not repay evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Romans 12:17-18
It is your job to do what you can to live at peace with everyone. It is not your job, however, to submit yourself to their abuse or insults. It is not your job to become a pincushion for their daggers.
When confronted with a co-worker or extended family member who disagrees with me or even dislikes me, I will do what I can to make peace, but I will also do what I must to protect myself and my family from unnecessary attacks and discomfort. I will also calmly and clearly defend the truth. So, no, we are not to be doormats. We are to be vigorous defenders of truth who communicate with love and peace.